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what to do while mom is away

I was so excited to have a new home and instantly became really attached to my mom. I followed her everywhere and never left her side. Unfortunately, she has to go to work every day so she doesn't get to stay home and play with me. When she first started to leave, I absolutely panicked that I was left alone. Mom learned really fast that I did not like to be locked up and I have managed to escape from anywhere she put me in the house (I can open every door handle and unlock deadbolts too!). She was really getting frustrated with me and concerned that I was going to hurt myself.

After talking to several people and working with a trainer/behaviorist that specializes in this type of training, my mom found out that I have separation anxiety and was going to have to change some things at our house. Many times I have heard "Logan, I love you to pieces, but you are a lot of work." Mom learned many things about dealing with my separation anxiety and I wanted to share some of them with you.

I am only 10 months old and have a ton of energy, so the first thing is to be sure I get plenty of exercise every day. If I go running with my mom or fetch the tennis ball for a while, then I am tired and ready to take a nap. She gets me calmed down and ready for a nap, then sneaks out the garage door. I can't sleep forever, so here are some things my mom leaves me to do while she is gone:

• I love peanut butter, so sometimes she will freeze some peanut butter in a Kong toy and leave it for me somewhere in the house. It is so exciting when I find it and I am usually ready for a snack after my nap.

• I also have my very own toy box. It is mostly full of tennis balls, but I have some other toys mixed in there too and my mom will hide some treats in the toy box for me to find. I don't know if she thought I was going to pull my toys out one at a time (seriously, that would take all day!), so I usually just stand on it and knock it over to see what is hiding in there for me.

• I have this toy called the Buster Cube which helps keep me from getting too bored. My mom puts a few pieces of food in it and then I have to kick the cube around to get the food to come out of the little hole. It is quite a bit of work but it really keeps me busy. My mom prefers me to play with the Buster Cube while she is gone because she says it is really loud on the wood floors.

• My mom plays some music for me every day that is supposed to help with my anxiety. It is called "Through A Dog's Ear - Music to Calm Your Canine Companion". The music is kind of boring and it eventually puts me to sleep. Please don't tell my mom, but after three months, I am kind of tired of listening to Mozart.

The second I hear the garage door I get up and anxiously wait for my mom to come in and play with me. Most days she comes in and says "Logan, thank you for being good and not chewing our house up today", gives me a big hug and kiss and assures me that everything is okay. It has taken me quite a while to get used to my mom leaving, but I finally know that she always comes home to me.

If you get stressed out when your mom leaves too, tell her to try some of these things to help you out. Mom learned from the trainer that positive reinforcement is the best way to get results and harsh punishment only makes the situation worse. That's why AZGRC recommends trainers like Shannon Holstein at Kokopelli Dog & Puppy Training (480-839-3118).  In severe cases there are medications to help, but please discuss this with your vet and a trainer as medication is not a substitute for training.

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